Wednesday, August 19, 2015

Thoughts.


1. You grow up, you change. Change is inevitable. But change is good. It depends on what goal you want to have.

2. Talk is cheap, action speaks louder, always. But I also believe that intention speak the loudest. Its just that, some people can't convey it. Not all people can act the same way as their intentions. And if a person can truly act the talk, it shows what kind of a person he truly is.

3. In solitude, I found myself. I am filled with thoughts and it can go mad. Sometimes, I just need to take a step back, breathe, and have that time with myself. I like to be in my fort, my comfort zone, alone. It makes me reflect more upon myself and this life, and somehow eventually I find who I truly am.

4. I think it is so hard for some people to change into a better person is because firstly, they need to find the root of the problem first. What is stopping them to change? Find the root of the problem, deal with it and go from there.

5. Allah gives hidayah to who He wills. No matter how drifted away that person is, he has that chance to receive Allah's hidayah.

6. Dua, dua is so powerful. A person's dua is the most precious gift that anyone could give to you.

7. Don't attached yourself with anyone. Do not let your heart to be attached with this worldly things.

8. At your lowest, there is always someone, some thing, basically "tools" that Allah has given you to get right back up again.

9. When you turn to Allah, He will take care all of your affairs, insyaAllah. He will protect you. Just trust Him.

10. What makes a person nice and kind? See how he treats the people around him and how selfless that person is.

11. Love. Love is too subjective. People tend to be confused with "love", "admiration" and "attachment". You can't just say you are with a person out of love. WHY do you love that person in the first place.

12. Put the love of your family first. Because at the end of the day, your family will be there no matter what.

13. Loving someone makes you sacrifice things. It seems easier, no? To sacrifice the things that you love for someone you love? So why is it hard to sacrifice things out of love for God?

14. I am more proactive when it comes to listening nowadays. Yes, there's a fine line between an active and passive listener.

15. People are so attached to social media up to a point that there is a need to show their whole life to people. The number of likes are so important. It's like a drug that they need.  They have the need to impress the people that they barely know. And for what? really?

16. Being different doesn't make you weird. Embrace the unique-ness that you have.

17. Train your heart to be kind, always.

18. Be someone that you wish to be. Work on it. Act the talk. Act the intention.

19. Fate is of course not in our hand. But I believe that we can actually "control" it by our actions. By our duas and how much faith we have in our creator.

20. Opportunity is always right there. We just need to be daring enough to grab it and do it.

21. There is always something to improve, something to learn, something to do. Be proactive, be alert, be better.

22. Chemistry is one thing, but character last forever.

23. You can love a person without "falling". You just need to know how to control it.

24. Islam is all about controlling your mind, your feelings in the right way. It is about submitting yourself to the creator. Live your life freely but with discipline.

25. Why do people rush into things? What are we rushing into? Can't we just know a person first, then jump into something else?

26. People come and go. We need to cut off those who are toxic to us. But do we ever wonder, that we might be the toxic ones to others?

27. I appreciate the little things in life. I appreciate diy things. I appreciate long written text/letters. I appreciate small gestures and random act of kindness. I appreciate more.

28. Be the light. You never know that you actually bring someone out of the darkness. With His will, of course.

29. Education goes a long way. Educate yourself not only with books. but with the world, with experience, with people.

30. The existence of social media somehow make people nowadays more busy body about other people's life. People nowadays are actually "stalkers" without even realising it.

31. Ask yourself, are you truly happy? Are you truly content?

33. There is always good in bad and there is always bad in good. It's all about perspective. How we see things.

34. I love people who share knowledge/things that they've learnt to me. I live for deep, constructive conversation.

35. Laying low with your life doesn't mean you don't have a life. It simply means you're living your life without people knowing what you're up to. After all, the less you reveal, the more they wander. :)
Mysterious innit.







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